Had a girls day out with mom and paige today. It was a really nice, relaxing day. Went shopping, had lunch, hung out. It was really nice. My only complaint is towards Books A Million. All I wanted was a lesbian romance novel. It’s not like I was looking for some erotic novel or anything, just a sweet little romance like I’ve been reading (Accidental Love by BL Miller. Fantastic book I love it so much). But no, I searched high and low in that store, and (granted I haven’t been to one in a looooong time) I could have sworn they had a gay section, albeit small, but it was there. Nothing…not even a sliver of a section. I even asked for good measure to make sure I wasn’t missing it. I was so disappointed by the time we left. Like, seriously Books A Million? You crushed my hopes today.

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"i am not at all physically attracted to you"

is an absolutely valid reason to not want to date someone.

People had the nerve to call me shallow for this.

By the way, it’s also totally cool to turn someone down without explaining your reasons. You are not interested, no will suffice. Do not feel pressured to explain your decisions to someone else. 

Try having to explain to your own freaking parents, repeatedly, why you’re not interested in someone. :|

It’s like my feeling are less important then the grandchildren they feel that I owe them and “need” to be happy.